Five online dating tips to attract women

by Joanne Adams May 05, 2019

Joining dating sites, men hope to get a lot of attention from attractive women. But the reality is different from the expectations. Most men don’t get answers to 90% of the messages they send. But don’t get discouraged, guys.

These five powerful tips may help you become the man that women fight for on dating sites.

Personalize your messages

Send first messages women cannot ignore. There are a lot of ways to catch a lady’s attention. Write something funny to her. Or ask her an unexpected question. Or use some facts she mentioned in her profile. Or just introduce yourself. Write anything more meaningful than just, “Hi.”

Never ignore women’s signals

Like in real life, women also send signals on dating sites in order to prompt a man to make the first move. But most men don’t seem to notice them. Don’t be one of the “forever alone” guys. If a woman has liked your photo, sent you a wink or added your page to her favorites, she is interested in you. So feel free to send her a message. But don’t forget to personalize it.

Expand your search radius

If you don’t attract women who work in the next office, it doesn’t mean that you don’t attract women who live in your city...or in your country...or on your continent... or on your planet, after all! Expand the radius of your search, and you will be surprised by the results.

Don’t talk too much about yourself

When you are talking to women on a dating site, don’t make everything about you. Women hate it, really. It’s absolutely OK that you want to impress the lady you like and show her all your better qualities. But if you are complimenting yourself instead of complimenting her, you have a problem, buddy.

So stop bragging. Stop selling yourself. Just shut up and be a good listener.

Just smile

There is a misconception among men that they look more sexy and masculine when they are not smiling in their pictures. But women, on the contrary, are more likely to interact with guys who don’t feel afraid to show that they have a soft side. So smile. It turns women on.

About the author

Joanne Adams

Blog writer

She went on 200 first dates with men she had met on different dating sites. She knows everything about online dating and likes to share her knowledge with men and women who are seeking their soulmates online.

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